May 31, 2013

After I joined the Church and adopted a new lifestyle more compatible with the Gospel, my Mom, who was not particularly happy that I joined the Church in the first place, used to love to remind me about my behaviors prior to joining. Not in an evil, spiteful way, but a gentle reminder. If the [...]
Tags: forgiveness, repentance
Posted in Agency, Doctrine, Faith, History, Mormon Belief, Uncategorized | 18 Comments »
May 28, 2013

What does it mean that the church is a restoration? As I grew up in the church, I always thought of restoration as implying stuff fell out that had to be put back in. Things that fit into this category included: the role of prophets and apostles, translation capabilities (including that pesky Urim & Thummim that someone mislaid a [...]
Tags: authority, Joseph Smith, LDS, restoration, revelation
Posted in America, Church Policy, History, Israel, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Polygamy | 10 Comments »
May 21, 2013

In an amazing OP written by John Gustav-Wrathall of Young Stranger: On Unfairness and “Spiritual Reinforcements” he discusses the injustices polygamy heaped on early Mormon women like Emma, and compared those to the indignities and heartache suffered by gay Mormons in the wake of Prop 8: And as the sense of anger and betrayal welled [...]
Tags: comforter, offended, personal revelation
Posted in Agency, Church Policy, Doctrine, Faith, Freedom, Morality, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Uncategorized | 37 Comments »
May 20, 2013

If someone were to create a documentary on a Mormon History topic, what would you like to learn most about? Here is a list of 20 topics, what would be your top 5? (If you have something not listed, feel free to add to the list.) Why is it your favorite topic?
Posted in History, Mormon, Mormon Belief | 5 Comments »
May 14, 2013

There was a recent article in Sunstone [1] studying the prevalence of avoidance as a conflict strategy among Wasatch front Mormons (students at Weber State specifically). Organizational leadership courses have been teaching these concepts for decades. Avoidance is generally considered the least effective conflict strategy; rather than addressing the conflict by making one’s own needs known and [...]
Tags: avoidance, conflict management, contention is of the devil, mental health, passive aggression, Utah Mormon, Wasatch front
Posted in Agency, Freedom, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Uncategorized | 57 Comments »
May 13, 2013

Many of us have been following the drama of where to bury the Boston bomber who died in a shootout with police. No cemetery in Massachusetts will take the body, and it’s not an option to bury him in Russia. Finally, a Muslim cemetery in Virginia took his body, and Virginians aren’t happy about it. [...]
Tags: Bruce R. McConkie, cremation, Death, Mormon Doctrine
Posted in Mormon, Mormon Belief | 30 Comments »
May 11, 2013

If you were stranded on a desert island with only one . . . book of scripture . . . what would it be? Clearly, this isn’t the usual desert island fantasy. Discuss.
Tags: Scriptures
Posted in Agency, Doctrine, Education, Faith, Morality, Mormon, Mormon Belief | 23 Comments »
May 11, 2013

In my living room, I have an oil painting of the grove in Palmyra where Mormonism’s First Vision occurred. It is a family heirloom painted by the wife of a well-known RLDS Seventy of my parents’ generation who befriended them when they retired to Independence. Since Joseph Smith is not shown in the picture, nor [...]
Tags: church policy, Community of Christ, confounding of languages, First Vision, Joseph Smith, Mormon, Mormon Culture, Mormon theology, Palmyra, religious symbolism, sacred grove, scripture, USA Conference
Posted in America, Church Policy, Community of Christ, Doctrine, Joseph Smith, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture | 30 Comments »
May 7, 2013

I recently took an online test to determine if I am a helicopter parent. Ironically, it was a helicopter quiz! After every question, it gave me immediate, condescending feedback about whether my opinion was right or wrong. And with several of the questions, I didn’t like ANY of the options; they were all too helicopter-y [...]
Tags: control, correlation, helicopter parenting, maturity, parenting
Posted in Agency, Freedom, Morality, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture | 18 Comments »
May 4, 2013

How much is too much? How much is not enough? How often do you go to the temple? Do you think you should go more often? Why or why not? Discuss.
Tags: Endowment, LDS, Temple, worship
Posted in Agency, Church Policy, Freedom, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture | 17 Comments »
May 1, 2013

I enjoyed my experiment with Mormonism and sexism so much that I decided to do the same with Mormonism and racism. The results were remarkably similar. One thing making this video got me thinking about was the light of Christ. In LDS scripture, the light of Christ is characterized not only as the force that [...]
Tags: Book of Mormon, priesthood, racism
Posted in Church Policy, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Uncategorized | 39 Comments »
April 27, 2013

We’ve been cleaning the chapels in most areas (except where it is not feasible) for many years now, although most of us remember a day when the church employed professional janitors to keep the building sparkling. With so many people out of work, should the church change back to professional help? Discuss.
Tags: Bain, cleaning, janitor, job creation, LDS
Posted in Agency, Church Policy, Freedom, money, Morality, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture | 15 Comments »
April 26, 2013

The headline is clear. Community of Christ will provide sacramental ordinances of marriage, commitment ceremonies, and ordination independent of sexual orientation in the USA. Specifically, after two days of discussion, the USA National Conference formally approved by a required 2/3rds majority the following recommendations to the First Presidency and Quorum of Twelve: The 2013 USA [...]
Tags: apostles, church policy, common consent, Community of Christ, culture, Doctrine of Discovery, feminism, First Peoples, homosexuality, Leaders, leadership, Linda Booth, marriage, Mormon Culture, nuclear weapons, ordination, politics, prophets, USA Conference, women, World Conference
Posted in America, Church Policy, Community of Christ, Doctrine, Morality, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Politics, Priesthood, Prophet, Violence | 30 Comments »
April 23, 2013

People refer to weak apologetics as mental gymnastics, being willing to cling to the improbable or outright absurd rather than cutting through the crap to the logical (yet possibly faith-shaking) solution. And yet, we are also told that truth is stranger than fiction and that with God nothing is impossible, which gives eternal hope to [...]
Tags: Apologetics, arguments, debate, fallacies, mental gymnastics, occam's razor
Posted in Agency, Church Policy, Doctrine, Morality, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture | 12 Comments »
April 20, 2013

The ordain women movement is focused on asking why females should not be ordained. Let’s flip that around and ask why males are ordained. Discuss.
Tags: gospel, LDS, ordination, priesthood, restoration, service, sexism, women
Posted in Agency, Church Policy, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Priesthood, Uncategorized | 16 Comments »
April 19, 2013

1 Sam 8:18-22 18 And ye shall cry out in that day because of your king which ye shall have chosen you; and the Lord will not hear you in that day. 19 ¶Nevertheless the people refused to obey the voice of Samuel; and they said, Nay; but we will have a king over us; [...]
Tags: freedom, king, lds temple, liberty, Temple
Posted in Doctrine, Freedom, Mormon, Mormon Belief | 7 Comments »
April 16, 2013

Feminism makes some men very nervous. They are afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing and being labelled a sexist. They may feel like outsiders, unclear of their own standing as these conversations unfold. Men and women alike may not be sure what feminism entails, but it can seem like a daunting list, one [...]
Tags: equal rights, equality, feminism, feminism 101, feminist terms, lexicon, opportunity, sexism, women
Posted in Agency, America, Church Policy, Freedom, Morality, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Politics | 70 Comments »
April 13, 2013

How much detail is appropriate in a confession? When does a leader go from being helpful to being pruriently interested in the lurid details of a confessor’s love life? Where do you draw the line? Discuss.
Tags: chastity, confession, ecclesiastical abuse, LDS, leadership, sexual sin
Posted in Agency, Church Policy, Doctrine, Faith, Morality, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture | 6 Comments »
April 13, 2013

Pending the birth of Princess Kate’s baby, Lady Cosima Rose Alexandra Windsor is currently 24th in line for the British throne. Lady Cosima is the nearly three-year-old great granddaughter of a grandfather of the current queen. I didn’t know that, and I really wouldn’t care, but I did easily look it up, and I could do [...]
Tags: church policy, feminism, general conference, LDS, marriage, Mormon
Posted in Church Policy, economics, General Conference, Mission, Morality, Mormon Belief, Politics, Singles | 39 Comments »
April 9, 2013

In January 2012, I did a blog post about topics women in the church were discussing. I identified 10 practices that some women saw as unnecessarily discriminate or that were in other ways causing women to question their value in the church. This was in response to a request Pres. Beck made of Mormon Mommy [...]
Tags: feminists, ordain women, priesthood, women
Posted in Agency, Church Policy, Mission, Morality, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture | 36 Comments »