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The Virtues of Vanity

December 17, 2014
The Virtues of Vanity

I credit Ralph Lauren with curing my depression.  When I started filling my closet with his clothing, my depression simply slipped away.  I had a stylist who worked at Ralph Lauren in Houston.  He taught me to avoid the shirts with pony on the front and go for the really good, expensive stuff that is […]

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Festive Food: Mince Pies

December 4, 2014
Festive Food: Mince Pies

The smell of baking pastry and mincemeat heralds the arrival of Christmas. As a child my first mince pie of Christmas was always December 1st, since there was a family birthday that day. Our tradition was a mince pie each everyday in December thereafter. My mum would bake them in large batches at least twice […]

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Terryl Givens: LDS Paradox #1

November 26, 2014
Terryl Givens: LDS Paradox #1

Apologies to everyone for the similarities between Hawkgrrrl’s recent post!  Same subject, different approach. Terryl Givens’ book A People of Paradox: A History of Mormon Culture presents four fundamental paradoxes in LDS culture. Some in the church might argue that there are no paradoxes. The church comfortably embraces all truth in one great whole. Others see conflicts and […]

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Authority vs. Authenticity

November 25, 2014
Authority vs. Authenticity

Do Mormons have an authenticity problem? If so, is it related to our views of authority?

Posted in Agency, Apostasy, Church Policy, Criticism, Culture, emotions, Faith, Feminism, gender equity, LDS, leadership, Morality, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Mormon Discussion, Priesthood, Uncategorized, workplace | 29 Comments »

Is it Time to Update the Word of Wisdom?

November 24, 2014
Is it Time to Update the Word of Wisdom?

Fair warning: I know that Thursday is Thanksgiving, so this post will probably be a killjoy. The Word of Wisdom was written in Joseph Smith’s day and primarily concerned the major health problems of the day: alcoholism and and tobacco.  These were industries of “conspiring men in the last days.”  But obesity is turning out to […]

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Would Joseph Smith Have Liked the Bloggernacle?

November 19, 2014
Would Joseph Smith Have Liked the Bloggernacle?

I learned an interesting tidbit about LDS church history from Terryl Given’s excellent book, People of Paradox. Apparently in the early days of the church, debate “clubs” were popular among members. Not unlike the informal online gatherings in today’s bloggernacle, early LDS saints, Joseph Smith included, would regularly meet for debates, where they argued about […]

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You should have known better!

November 14, 2014
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Wheat & Tares welcomes guest poster Bill Reel once more for a discussion regarding placing of blame for a lack of knowledge of Historical Facts. As Richard Bushman says at a 2008 seminar “Increasingly teachers and church leaders at all levels are approached by Latter-day Saints who have lost confidence in Joseph Smith and the basic […]

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Posted in Anti-Mormon, Apostasy, Bill Reel, Criticism, Culture, Doctrine, Latter, LDS, Mormon Discussion, Race Relations, Science and Religion, Truth. Lying, Uncategorized | 56 Comments »

President Eyring off to the Vatican

November 6, 2014
President Eyring off to the Vatican

It was announced Monday that President Henry B. Eyring would be attending “The Complementarity of Man and Woman: An International Colloquium” to be held in the Vatican 17-19 November. From the colloquium website, this is “a gathering of leaders and scholars from many religions across the globe, to examine and propose anew the beauty of […]

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Mormons Need Mormonism

November 5, 2014
Mormons Need Mormonism

Sometimes I get impatient with LDS theology: the clunky anthropomorphism of a “God who weeps,” the sentimental materialism of the eternal family “in heaven as it is on earth,” the focus on obedience, historicity, universality, etc. As a BYU student, I remember being thrilled by the doctrine of deification and eternal progression. But today, I […]

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The Sweet Consolation of an Impersonal God

October 29, 2014
The Sweet Consolation of an Impersonal God

Last week I attended an ordination of a new cleric at Norwich Cathedral. He gave florid vows in high, KJV style English and knelt before the bishop in his stately robes who solemnly laid his hands upon his head. The organist played a hair-raising postlude by Olivier Messiaen. The congregation sat in rapt attention as […]

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What is the Proclamation on the Family? (Weekend Poll)

October 25, 2014
What is the Proclamation on the Family?  (Weekend Poll)

There are many opinions about the Proclamation, even among the top leaders of the church. What do you think? Discuss.

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PR and Religion: Can We Cooperate?

October 23, 2014
PR and Religion: Can We Cooperate?

Sometimes it seems like it’s one PR problem after another, and plenty have fuelled bloggernacle discussions over the last year or so. In this post I’ll be looking at PR as discussed in this BBC R4 Beyond Belief programme, and a recent podcast in which Gina Colvin interviews members Roy and Emma Hann about their […]

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Seattle LDS to Gays: Come Back, But to What?

October 21, 2014
Seattle LDS to Gays: Come Back, But to What?

My little sister sent me an email yesterday, troubled about just what to make of what I called the “post-crusade era” of SSM in the church. She had the following questions: Should legally married gay/lesbian couples be allowed to take the sacrament? Say hypothetically that this couple wanted to get baptized, would they have to […]

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Books Reviewed: Anne Perry, James Dashner, Shannon Hale, Carys Bray

October 9, 2014
Books Reviewed: Anne Perry, James Dashner, Shannon Hale, Carys Bray

Just recently I’ve found myself reading books by LDS (or ex-LDS) authors consecutively, not that common an occurrence, so I thought I did give a quick review of my thoughts. The most recent was: “The Angel Court Affair” by Anne Perry I have long enjoyed Anne Perry’s Thomas Pitt, and Hester & William Monk series […]

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Posted in Culture, Faith, Feminism, Freedom, Mormon Culture, Mormon Discussion, Reviews, Uncategorized | 4 Comments »

The Crusade Against SSM is Officially Over

October 8, 2014
The Crusade Against SSM is Officially Over

The church’s recent statement on the Supreme Court decision was notable for its lack of judgement, with no attempt to exercise political influence. Gone were the phrases “we hope,” “we were disappointed,” “we encourage.” Replacing it was a respectful acknowledgement of the authority of the courts, and an appeal to the free expression of our […]

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Updated: Who’s Privileged?

October 3, 2014
Updated: Who’s Privileged?

Recent blog posts by Kate Kelly and Joanna Brooks on FMHseem to embrace some of what I was trying to convey with this post.  There seems to me, the way that I read those two articles, a recognition that things are not just about white, privileged, Mormon feminists but the net of equality is cast […]

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Forbidden Fire: Eve as Prometheus or Pandora?

October 1, 2014
Forbidden Fire: Eve as Prometheus or Pandora?

A few months ago, I wrote a post positing two theories of Eve: “Eve, the Noble Transgressor,” and “Eve, the Sinner.”  Many Mormons celebrate the Noble Eve: an aspirational figure of righteousness who knew she was doing the right thing by partaking of the fruit.  However, earlier LDS readings viewed Eve in the traditional way, […]

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Show Me, Don’t Tell Me: The European Sisters’ Meeting

September 11, 2014
Show Me, Don’t Tell Me: The European Sisters’ Meeting

Two weeks after the kerfuffle over the poster advertising the European Sisters’ Meeting, I was able to attend the broadcast itself. The poster was a bad start, but let’s see how we’re doing from a “show me, don’t tell me” perspective of the position of women in the church. I’ll give a brief overview of […]

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Life is Sacred: A Tribute to Yasujiro Ozu

September 10, 2014
Life is Sacred: A Tribute to Yasujiro Ozu

Film director Yasujiro Ozu’s 1949 masterpiece Late Spring opens with a Japanese tea ceremony.  Women in beautiful kimonos kneel in a circle together, bowing deeply as each new participant arrives.  The hostess starts the ceremony with elaborate formality, each movement choreographed to perfection.  The women in the circle watch in reverent silence.  The camera cuts […]

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Seeing the truth

September 7, 2014
Seeing the truth

Bad things can happen to us, but we do not need to become what has happened to us.

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