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An Open Letter to Current Active Mormons

February 20, 2013
An Open Letter to Current Active Mormons

Dear Epistemologically Certain Emotionally/Developmentally Arrested TBM (ECEDATBM): Please sign an agreement now, that you won’t be a tool when you leave the church.

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Should Mormons Get With the Program?

September 29, 2012
Should Mormons Get With the Program?

Not the program you might think. Rather, the kind of program some people had in mind for Salman Rushdie when he pointed out the contradictions of “The Satanic Verses”. Or, perhaps that should be pogrom, since there are death penalties involved. Certainly, Mark Steyn is one who has had his proverbial skin in the game, [...]

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Posted in Agency, America, Freedom, Morality, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Politics, understanding, Violence | 30 Comments »

There are Wars and There are WARS

September 16, 2012
There are Wars and There are WARS

Unable to sleep a few nights ago, I sought mind-deadening through cable TV. I chanced upon a movie I thought would do the job — a murder mystery set in a mountain abbey in 14th Century Italy. I didn’t get what I expected. Instead, the movie, The Name of the Rose, starring Sean Connery and [...]

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Posted in America, Europe, Faith, Freedom, History, Israel, Morality, Politics, understanding, Violence | 18 Comments »

Hearing Prophets — Just what are they saying and how to hear them.

July 20, 2012
Hearing Prophets — Just what are they saying and how to hear them.

When prophets talk what they say falls into one of six categories. This essay is about how to determine which category their words fit into and how to have a better understanding and application of the speech of prophets, ancient and modern.  It presents six categories and five tools. The six categories are: 1) Specific [...]

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Posted in Alternative Sunday School Lessons, understanding | 42 Comments »

The One Percent that Ought to Concern Us

July 7, 2012
The One Percent that Ought to Concern Us

“There is but one Lord of the Ring, and he does not share power!” — Gandalf to Saruman. Hawkgrrrl recently summarized Jonathan Haidt’s thesis, expressed in The Righteous Mind, of how people develop pronounced liberal or conservative tendencies as a combination of both genetics and experience (see here). I also wrote about Haidt’s ideas about how [...]

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Posted in Agency, America, Europe, Freedom, Morality, Politics, understanding | 62 Comments »

Understanding General Authorities’ Themes

July 6, 2012
Stop It, Dieter F. Uchtdorf

General Authorities tend to have themes. Some are shared between them, but others come to define specific authorities.

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Are you Nephi or Lemuel?

June 29, 2012
Are you Nephi or Lemuel?

One of the striking things about the Isaiah chapters in the Book of Mormon is that it appears that both Nephi and Lemuel claimed them for support. As you read through 2 Nephi chapters 17 and 18 you are hitting a favored text of those who claimed that Jerusalem had nothing to fear. When Nephi [...]

Posted in Alternative Sunday School Lessons, Church Policy, economics, Morality, Mormon Culture, Pride, Uncategorized, understanding | 35 Comments »

East vs. West: What Is Right Action?

May 8, 2012
East vs. West:  What Is Right Action?

As an American living in Asia, I often encounter cultural disconnects.  A peer or friend will make a comment that is so obviously based on assumptions or values I don’t share that I realize that my own values and assumptions must sound equally foreign to them. A few months ago, one of my co-workers in [...]

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Posted in Agency, economics, Faith, Morality, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Science and Religion, understanding | 34 Comments »

What, Me Worry?

April 20, 2012
What, Me Worry?

With the increased scrutiny of the church in the media recently, a new fear-promoting rumour has apparently begun to circulate.  From a memo the church has released: “The following statements are being attributed to Elder David A. Bednar about what he purportedly said would happen if Mitt Romney wins the Republican nomination: · That persecution [...]

Posted in America, Church Policy, Faith, Freedom, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Politics, understanding | 13 Comments »

What Is Your Worship Style? (Quiz!)

March 3, 2012
What Is Your Worship Style? (Quiz!)

Today’s guest post is from Bloggernacle favorite EmJen who adapted an online quiz for a Mormon audience.  I thought it would be interesting to see what forms of worship speak most to us, the Wheat & Tares audience, individually and collectively.  Also, as you consider the results, are these typical for Mormons?  Are there some [...]

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Posted in Agency, Freedom, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, understanding | 14 Comments »

Diversity: Avoiding Pain is No Gain

March 3, 2012
Diversity: Avoiding Pain is No Gain

I still contend I was not being insensitive — just naive. I arrived on the East Coast in 1973 — freshly out of grad school — having been selected for the one job at John Hopkins Applied Physics Lab I’d wanted more than any other I’d even considered applying for. After my church had canonized [...]

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Posted in Politics, understanding | 2 Comments »

Learning to See Beauty

February 16, 2012
Learning to See Beauty

The philosopher Goethe once said that we should every day see something beautiful when he said that: “Every day look at a beautiful picture, read a beautiful poem, listen to some beautiful music, and if possible, say some reasonable thing.” This year I have taken up that challenge and I am attempting every day to [...]

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Learning from George Albert Smith’s Disabilities

January 20, 2012
Learning from George Albert Smith’s Disabilities

George Albert Smith was the eighth president of the LDS Church.  He suffered from  lupus erythematosus (an autoimmune disease) and was disabled for a period of about two years (bedridden from 1909 to 1912). The short summary of his life is: George Albert Smith was born on April 4, 1870, in Salt Lake City. His [...]

Posted in Mormon Culture, Prophet, Uncategorized, understanding | 12 Comments »

Wise Man vs. Shepherd Mormons

January 17, 2012
Wise Man vs. Shepherd Mormons

There have been many analogies to illustrate the different types of Mormons:  Iron Rod vs. Liahona Mormons, Adam types vs. Eve types, TBMs vs. Liberal or Cafeteria Mormons.  All of these analogies are trying to illustrate that there are very vocal, orthodox, unquestioning members, and there are also members who are unorthodox in how they view things, ask [...]

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Posted in Faith, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Pride, understanding | 19 Comments »

Pew! Glad that’s Over

January 13, 2012
Pew! Glad that’s Over

Now that the “Mormon in Americas” survey has been published (You can read the whole survey results here), the boobirds and naysayers are reacting. The survey results are quite clear in that they represent 1000 people who self-identify as “Mormon.” The Pew Research Center used a group of Mormon scholars to assist them in their [...]

Posted in America, Church Policy, Faith, Mormon, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Politics, Polygamy, understanding | 29 Comments »

Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire!

November 29, 2011
Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire!

There is a common concern among those who have experienced doubts in the church as to how much they should disclose about their doubts, to whom, and what the consequences of that disclosure might be.  A recent internet discussion involving someone whose temple recommend was withheld for sharing her struggles and doubts with a well-meaning [...]

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Posted in Church Policy, Faith, Morality, Mormon Belief, Mormon Culture, Prophet, Uncategorized, understanding | 102 Comments »

Understanding General Authorities

October 14, 2011
Understanding General Authorities

I’ve written a fair amount on understanding General Authorities.  With this post I will address a few lessons almost all of them have learned: Don’t inhale. You know less than you think you do. Capture.

Posted in Mormon Culture, Uncategorized, understanding | 28 Comments »

On being heard, revisited

October 28, 2010
On being heard, revisited

Many people complain that they are not being heard.  Yes, there is an issue with people not listening.  Even more, there is also a matter of people not paying the price to be heard.

Posted in Uncategorized, understanding | 17 Comments »

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